Today I went home. It was the 125th Anniversary Celebration of my home church, First Baptist Lumberton. There were so many who came! So many memories came flooding in my mind.
My family joined this church the summer before my seventh grade year. We had been attending another church down the road from our house. Following a season of prayer, my father told us girls that God was calling us to serve in another church. Now, my dad was not a preacher or even a deacon. But he sure isn't a "pew warmer". And, when God told him to do something, he pretty much did it....always has, always will.
Needless to say, I was not excited about leaving the church that I had grown up in. I was just going into Junior High...very awkward age to say the least. I was also very, very shy! We went and visited First Lumberton. I was so scared! What if the kids here do not like me? What if I don't fit in? Why didn't God just let us stay where we were?
I can remember the first Sunday night we visited. There was a full choir of youth. Now, I loved music...so this really caught my interest. Then, some of the youth came to me after the service. They invited me to go with the group to eat pizza after the service. This was a once a month tradition for years!
I just about passed out right then and there. They were inviting me!
And that was the beginning. I was actively involved in the youth all through junior high and high school. I remember so many things about that time....
I remember....
being part of a caring youth group......
Bible drill
youth choir (I had my first experience with a female music director....that is when I first felt the call to serve in ministry, to be honest. All my life, I never saw a female serve on staff at a church.)
serving on ministry teams
being part of a team that started a devotion time during break time at school
singing with a great adult choir
my sister's baptism
my dad's deacon ordination
I also remember later on serving on staff there. It was truly a wonderful time.....the music director had grown up in that church....and I did, also. During that time, the church truly saw a clear picture of the fruit they were sowing.
May God continue to bless this church. May He continue to draw hearts to Himself. And then, may those hearts step out and reach others for Him!
Allan Guei, a basketball standout at Compton High School, won $40,000 in a free-throw competition in March and subsequently donated the money to the seven other students in the contest, including Efren Arellano, Diana Ramirez and Victory Holley. Guei had already received a full athletic scholarship to Cal State Northridge. (Robert Gauthier, Los Angeles Times / July 3, 2011) |
Allan Guei was a standout player on the Compton High School basketball team, but when he stepped to the free-throw line for a chance to win $40,000 in college expenses, he admitted to feeling a little pressure.
He made five out of 10 attempts in the March competition, edging the first runner-up, who sank four underhanded baskets as she trembled at the line.
After receiving a full basketball scholarship to Cal State Northridge, Guei announced he would give his contest winnings to the seven runners-up in the free-throw competition.
Under NCAA rules, Guei could have kept most of the winnings without giving up his athletic scholarship. But he thought the others were more in need of the boost.
"They were all smart and wanted to pursue their dreams, but were having financial difficulties," Guei said after basketball practice recently. "I felt it was the right move to help the others, especially when everything else was taking off for me."
His classmates were thrilled.
"It was a shock," said runner-up Omar Guzman, 17, who plans to attend San Diego State University in the fall. "I'm really grateful there are people like that out there. It was generous."
Victory Holley, another runner-up, took a world history class with Guei last year and knew he was kindhearted. But she never expected such a gesture.
"I thought he'd at least give that money to his family or something," said Holley, 18, who plans to attend El Camino Community College. "That made his character even better."
The contest was the brainchild of Court Crandall, an advertising executive and screenwriter who wanted to make a documentary that dispelled some of the negative stereotypes associated with the city of Compton.
He decided on the free-throw contest because his 16-year-old son, Chase, played club basketball on teams that included boys from Compton and because he saw the free-throw line as something that could unite people as opposed to the racial, social and economic lines that divide them.
His ad firm, Wong, Doody, Crandall, Wiener, got behind the project, raising more than $75,000 for scholarships.
The contest was open to Compton seniors with a grade-point average of at least 3.0. Of the 80 who qualified, eight were chosen at random.
"My hope was that what started as a competition would become a collaboration with the kids supporting each other," Crandall said.
"They did, but in the end they did that to a much greater extent than I ever could have anticipated."
The students had been told that runners-up would receive $1,000 for college, but they were surprised to learn after the competition that they'd each receive about $5,500 — for most, enough for a full year's tuition. Many, like Efren Arellano, 19, who plans to attend Rio Hondo, will be the first in their family to attend college.
Compton High School Principal Jesse Jones said he had become skeptical about the intentions of outsiders because the image of Compton and its youth didn't always reflect the reality.
But he decided to trust his students' abilities. The scholarships were the most the school had ever received and demonstrated to students that academic achievement could be rewarded, he said.
"My staff can preach about good grades, but unless they see evidence of the outcomes, it doesn't register," Jones said.
Although Guei, a 5-foot-9 point guard, was a star on the basketball team, Crandall thought it would be unfair to exclude him, since he had also succeeded academically.
Money received by student athletes is governed by strict NCAA guidelines, but Guei probably could have kept as much as 80% of his contest winnings, said Cal State Northridge basketball coach Bobby Braswell.
"Allan fit all the things we look for in a student: academics, athletic skills and character," Braswell said. "And doing what he did made us feel we made the right choice."
The contest money will be distributed evenly to the runners-up over the next four years, unless Guei loses his scholarship. In that case, he would be able to use the remaining funds to continue his education, Crandall said.
Guei, whose parents immigrated to the U.S. from the Ivory Coast, vows to complete his education and earn a degree.
"I'm leaning toward business — I like being the boss," he said, laughing. "Even if I make the NBA, that will open all the doors for me."
carla.rivera@latimes.com
He made five out of 10 attempts in the March competition, edging the first runner-up, who sank four underhanded baskets as she trembled at the line.
But it was the 18-year-old's next move that astonished his classmates at last month's graduation ceremonies.
After receiving a full basketball scholarship to Cal State Northridge, Guei announced he would give his contest winnings to the seven runners-up in the free-throw competition.
Under NCAA rules, Guei could have kept most of the winnings without giving up his athletic scholarship. But he thought the others were more in need of the boost.
"They were all smart and wanted to pursue their dreams, but were having financial difficulties," Guei said after basketball practice recently. "I felt it was the right move to help the others, especially when everything else was taking off for me."
His classmates were thrilled.
"It was a shock," said runner-up Omar Guzman, 17, who plans to attend San Diego State University in the fall. "I'm really grateful there are people like that out there. It was generous."
Victory Holley, another runner-up, took a world history class with Guei last year and knew he was kindhearted. But she never expected such a gesture.
"I thought he'd at least give that money to his family or something," said Holley, 18, who plans to attend El Camino Community College. "That made his character even better."
The contest was the brainchild of Court Crandall, an advertising executive and screenwriter who wanted to make a documentary that dispelled some of the negative stereotypes associated with the city of Compton.
He decided on the free-throw contest because his 16-year-old son, Chase, played club basketball on teams that included boys from Compton and because he saw the free-throw line as something that could unite people as opposed to the racial, social and economic lines that divide them.
His ad firm, Wong, Doody, Crandall, Wiener, got behind the project, raising more than $75,000 for scholarships.
The contest was open to Compton seniors with a grade-point average of at least 3.0. Of the 80 who qualified, eight were chosen at random.
"My hope was that what started as a competition would become a collaboration with the kids supporting each other," Crandall said.
"They did, but in the end they did that to a much greater extent than I ever could have anticipated."
The students had been told that runners-up would receive $1,000 for college, but they were surprised to learn after the competition that they'd each receive about $5,500 — for most, enough for a full year's tuition. Many, like Efren Arellano, 19, who plans to attend Rio Hondo, will be the first in their family to attend college.
Compton High School Principal Jesse Jones said he had become skeptical about the intentions of outsiders because the image of Compton and its youth didn't always reflect the reality.
But he decided to trust his students' abilities. The scholarships were the most the school had ever received and demonstrated to students that academic achievement could be rewarded, he said.
"My staff can preach about good grades, but unless they see evidence of the outcomes, it doesn't register," Jones said.
Although Guei, a 5-foot-9 point guard, was a star on the basketball team, Crandall thought it would be unfair to exclude him, since he had also succeeded academically.
Money received by student athletes is governed by strict NCAA guidelines, but Guei probably could have kept as much as 80% of his contest winnings, said Cal State Northridge basketball coach Bobby Braswell.
"Allan fit all the things we look for in a student: academics, athletic skills and character," Braswell said. "And doing what he did made us feel we made the right choice."
The contest money will be distributed evenly to the runners-up over the next four years, unless Guei loses his scholarship. In that case, he would be able to use the remaining funds to continue his education, Crandall said.
Guei, whose parents immigrated to the U.S. from the Ivory Coast, vows to complete his education and earn a degree.
"I'm leaning toward business — I like being the boss," he said, laughing. "Even if I make the NBA, that will open all the doors for me."
carla.rivera@latimes.com