Saturday, December 31, 2011

2012

It is now 2012. What a year 2011 has been.....

We found out my father in law had cancer...
We packed up and went to Texas to help out....
He left us in March....
We stayed until May....
Mike went to Singapore....
We stayed behind, the summer flew by.....
Found out that we will go residential....
Little sister finds out she's expecting a boy!
We prepare to move to South Korea.....

What a year 2012 will be!

Lord, You have gotten us this far.....I know You will not fail us now!

Friday, December 30, 2011

Life's Loops

Sometimes life can through you for loop. Boy, have we had ours. Now, we are heading to a different country in less than a month. Also, we have decided to go ahead and try to get JC in the foreign school. It is an excellent school with lots of extra curricular activities. The teacher/student ratio is also low.

Just praying he adjusts well. I talked with him about it. He is excited that they offer basketball. Haha!

I am praying that this new adventure makes us a stronger family who ministers to others and safes the good news!!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

A Beautiful Sight!

We are in Texas right now visiting Mike's family. I just went to the post office. The car next to me had a little girl and her parents. The girl had a Bible and was reading it with her dad. It was the most beautiful thing I have seen in awhile!

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Christmas at SungBin Orphanage Gwangju, Korea

It is really here........

I have been moving out for days now....and had Christmas on top of that!

Now, as I am finishing packing and cleaning the house....it has become really real....we are moving.

I will be driving to Texas tomorrow after we finish packing. We miss our family there so much!

I am excited about this new transition, even though the past few days have been crazy! I think I hauled over 40 bags of trash to the road today. I got myself a "Bob Harper" workout. (It reminded me of the episode when he went home with Sunny....when she was loading bags of feed in the truck...except mine was trash!)

Then, on went another load to charity.....and one to my parents' home.

I am officially exhausted and ready for a break. I am sure we can find a few moments of rest once we get to our Texas family!

And on we go.....on our adventure! (and living out of suitcases for about a month!)

Monday, December 19, 2011

Our Mississippi church family - Willow Pointe

Several years ago, we moved in closer to the Hattiesburg area. We felt God leading us to serve in a church closer in our community. We had visited some, then decided to visit Willow Pointe. I already knew the Watts family (they lived in where we used to live). I also found out that we had a lot of connections there. There have even been guys who worked at one time or another with Mike and my brother-in-law!

I will never forget that morning in September of 2008. I had seen where the children's director's name seemed familiar...so familiar that I thought I may have taught her little sister when I first starting teaching years ago.

We walked into the doors and were showered with love. I also had a devasting blow. That children's director was not there....she had just received a call that her mother had passed away. I knew her mom. My heart was so broken!

However, through that sadness, Lennie and I had a bond that no one else had in that congregation. I also had a bond with one of the elders....he was very good friends with a family member (who is also now my parents' pastor). Years ago, he and his wife adopted twins...from South Korea! (Yeah, I think God was planning this trip of ours over twenty years ago???)

I also have met so many who have mutual friends of mine. They supported us during my second pregnancy. They help me with the boys when Mike is gone. They prayed and prayed over us during Mike's dad's illness and death. They checked on the house for us when we were gone those months to Texas. Even one of our prayers warriors tried to call Mike when he was in with his dad during his last minutes before death.

God is moving in this congregation in a mighty way! When I came, I was able to get involved with the youth and children's ministries. That is where my heart is...since I had been in church ministry for 15 years prior to becoming a mom. The youth and kids at Willow Pointe are more than church members and friends...they are family! They have literally helped me raise these boys with Mike gone so much. The whole church has helped me raise them! There are so many Godly men who have stepped up and given me support when I needed it!

My boys are in no lack of spiritual guidance when their dad has to be overseas. That is for sure!

We love you more than you will ever know, Willow Pointe. You will always be home to us! :)

Revolution Church: My Texas Church Family

Last January, I made the decision to temporarily move to San Antonio to help my inlaws. My father-in-law had just been diagnosed with lung cancer and was getting weaker by the day. With no family around other than the immediate family, I knew I just had to go help.

Thank goodness we were homeschooling. I was able to pack up the boys in one day and head out the next. We only stayed in the house for a few days when we learned that my father-in-law could not be around the boys during chemo treatments. So, we became the "errand runners". And, we moved into a hotel....which lasted three weeks. However, the boys were so flexible! I could not believe it. We spent a lot of time at the park, children's museums, and playing in the hotel. We even got to see it snow.

My husband flew in from work a few weeks later, and we found a corporate furnished apartment to move into. It was such a blessing! However, as the weeks went on, we were hit with tragedy. Almost 3 months after we came to Texas, my father-in-law passed away. My husband stayed a few more weeks to help. I agreed to stay and help his mom with whatever came up. We kept the apartment so that we didn't crowd the house. (If you knew my two little boys, you'd know why! haha!)

But these boys were taking every step like true troopers. My oldest son was great, but you could tell he was missing friends at home at church. So I started visiting churches. Frustrated after a few visits, I found a website of a church that met at a gymnastics gym less than 5 miles from my inlaw's home.


It was Revolution Church. We were "bombarded" with love from the time we stepped out in the parking lot. JC loved the children's program! Micah even stayed in the nursery with no problems. (He has had his moments in nursery..haha!)

After the service, an angel, I mean, JC's teacher came running to me. She invited us to a small group meeting the next night at her home. Her family welcomed us in as if they had known us for years! JC was able to make friends who I know will be lifelong friends of ours. There were so many times during the two months we worshipped at Revolution Church that overwhelmed me.

There are so many I could name....Rick and Karyn, Zak and Amber, Micah, Connie, Krystal, Mary, Denise, David and Amanda, and so many more.....you will never know how much your love sustained us through that tough time.

We were truly needing the love of God drenched on us during that time. We were far away from our own precious church family in Mississippi....and you stepped right up.

No matter how far away we will, Revolution Church will always be our Texas church family!



May God continue to do a mighty work in all of your lives! We love you all!!!!!!
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Can't Sleep! Ugh!

I have been sick all week with alllergy/sinus/cold/cough "crud". I finally broke down today and went to the clinic since I had no voice to even teach Sunday School or sing in church!

They gave me a script for some antibiotics, plus a shot of steriods and a shot of more antibiotics to kickstart my recovery. The Good Lord knows I need to be well this week!

I am full force moving out. It is real now. There are bags of clothes, boxes of toys and memories everywhere.

Mike leaves tomorrow for South Korea, amongst reports that the leader of North Korea has died. Praying that things turn for the good of that country.....and for my husband's safety, along with the safety of all the other friends we have met through my online research.

I will be making a few posts tonight. God is reminding me of so many that I need to remember and thank tonight. Most are asleep tonight, but I hope they find the posts on facebook about the posts I am writing on this blog.

I do need some sleep.......but I will follow His leading first......

Monday, December 12, 2011

It is becoming more and more real....

We are really moving. It become more and more real with everyone box I pack up, every stack I sort through, every room I check off the list.

I am so ready to see my husband! We have not seen him since September. And, it has been a long three (soon to be four) months!

Today, JC broke down...we had a "bad" day on some errands....and things got pretty bad. After discussing punishment and what we should and should not do.....he broke down. He was really missing his dad. I did not realize how much he was missing him. I guess I get caught up into "life" that I don't take notice. He is a lot like me....we bottle things up, then when we are full of it....we burst!

I talked with him, hugged him in the parking lot of the fish house...yeah, he was crying so much that I pulled over....it was a moment that I knew I could not wait on until we got home four minutes later. We talked, hugged and cried together.

Lord, help me get all these things done that I need to for us to move. And, help me to also be ever aware of what the kids are going through. Thank you, Lord, for making a way for our family to be together everyday!!!!

Friday, December 9, 2011

Once again.....

I have said it a hundred times before....but I need to lose this weight, get into shape, and get healthy! I have started a new blog that will follow that part of my new adventure.

It is http://kksnewlifeat40.blogspot.com/.

Follow me! I will be posting videos, tips, struggles and victories!

Wow! I thought I had gotten a lot done around the house....but there is so much more to be done. I was going to try to get over to Texas before Christmas, but JC got a precious birthday party invite today....which is next weekend.

So that we can stay longer and visit more, we are going to wait and go the day after Christmas and stay that next week. That way I can be moved out and raring to go! :)

Please pray for me as I go through all this. It is overwhelming, but I know God's got this!

That is my new motto.....GOD'S GOT THIS!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

A Date That Will Live in Infamy!

Today is the 70th Anniversary of the attack on Pearl Harbor.



How do you explain war to a six year old? Today we talked during homeschool and throughout the day about what happened in Hawaii on that dreadful day. We watched clips of history...and even the episode of the Walton's that was created to remember Pearl Harbor. I don't think JC fully understands it. But, I do know he knows what bad is. I hate having to explain that we go to war. But it is a fact of life.

We are in a spiritual war. Each of us, even JC, is in a spiritual war every single day. We are called to be warriors for Christ.

Today I am reminded to fight. I cannot imagine what it was like on that day in December in 1941. I have heard stories of how churches filled with people praying around the clock. Young men were lining up to enlist. Women were driven to the workforce in the years ahead since many men were sent to war.

We are all called to fight the good fight....the fight for Christ. "Take up your cross and follow me....".

It is time to be courageous. I am reminded of the theme song of the movie "Courageous". JC and I decided that this is our family's new theme song. It is appropriate for many reasons....

They sing Micah 6:8 in the song......and we have our own "Micah".
JC is named after two of the courageous spies who went to the promised land.
And, God is calling us on this adventure with Him.

So, tonight, I get ready to take up my cross again tomorrow.........

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Countdown to Clean-Out

I have had a week! Last week we had plumbing problems which flooded some of the carpet in our bedroom....so, we had to have some repairs outside...and new carpet inside. The new carpet should be installed within a week.

I have put a major dent in toys in the living room and hit our bedroom hard. Now to finish the upstairs and our bath closets....then pack up knickknacks, photos, kitchen stuff, etc.

My goal is to get this all done by the end of next week. I want to be able to head over to my husband's family in Texas for a few days before Christmas, get back here for Christmas, then move out shortly after. We are planning on staying with my parents from the end of the year until we move to South Korea.

Boy, it is really hitting me......soon I will be in another country! I never dreamed I would be doing this.

I also watched "The Help" today. Boy, it was amazing. I was kind of disappointed with the ending....wanted it to keep going....showing the success of the "help" and Skeeter.

It moved me so much......much like "Radio", "End of the Spear", and "Blind Side". It makes me want to stand up more for those who deserve it!

God, please give me courage. I have so many times backed down....help me to stand up for what is right....and FOR YOU!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

With a Thankful Heart..........

Sorry for not posting for awhile! I had cataract surgery almost 2 weeks ago and have been recovering from that....along with the Thankgiving holidays.

I am so thankful for all the blessings God has given us! We are all in good health. My husband has a good job that he enjoys. He has been blessed with an awesome church to support him in Singapore while he is away from us. We have so many at our own church who are praying for us. We have a wonderful family and two precious sons.

May I never grow complacent when it comes to thankfulness to God. Our pastor preached that we should be "Thanks-living". That is our new motto around here! :)

Friday, November 11, 2011

Remembering and Thanking!

Today, we all are remembering and honoring our Veterans.

I thought about the sacrifice that so many have made. We say that sacrifice was for our country. But think about it.....

It was for you. It was for me.

I can sit here and blog without anyone coming to my door, dragging me out, and arresting me for sharing Christ online.

I can homeschool. I can vote. I can walk the streets without fear of war. I can move with my husband to a country across the globe and experience a new culture.

It is because of the soldiers who put their lives on the line.

It is because of my grandfather, who told of stories of fighting in WWII. He was in the Philippines most of the time. He tells of one time where he sat on the side of a mountain, hiding from the Japanese solders...for days!

My father spent time away from his family and friends serving in the Navy. My father-in-law served for over 45 years in the United States Air Force. My husband was an airborne ranger/paratrooper/medic in the Army 82nd.

He still will not watch the movie "Black Hawk Down". He told me one time that some of his group were in this battle.

I cannot imagine what these men saw. I cannot imagine what my great uncle went through at Normandy. And yet, they came home, and lived their lives.

We should be honoring these men and women everyday!

I have a former student who was a medic in the service. His group was bombed while in our latest conflict in Iraq. While he was laying and dying, he was giving fellow soldiers instructions on how to save a fellow brother's life. My student died....the other soldier lived thanks to his bravery.

I will not take this for granted. Too many days I have wasted.....is that fair to our military?

And what about the sacrifice Jesus made for us? Are we wasting our life in vain?

Don't waste a day. Make it count for the soldier and for Jesus!

Sacrifice

I had one of "those weeks". I was very disappointed with the results of the voting for Amendment 26 in Mississippi. My heart was broken, in fact. I could not understand why more Christian would not take a stand?

Then, today came. It is Veteran's Day. There are so many who have serve and sacrificed their lives, free time, and work to fight for our freedom. The freedom to speak, the freedom to worship, the freedom to do whatever we want......just wish more of us would think about that when we think of the freedom of "choice".

I have been challenged to "Choose What is Right". Yes, we didn't stop abortion. I can't stop others from abusing people, feelings, and property. I can't even change a person's heart.

But I know Who can! And that is what I choose everyday. I choose to serve and worship God, the Almighty. I choose to be a better wife, mother, daughter, sister, niece, aunt, friend, etc. I choose to smile. I choose to show love to others who need God's love. I choose to face the day not for me, but for Him.

“Blessed are they who maintain justice, who constantly do what is right.” Psalm 106:3
 
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Monday, November 7, 2011

Life?

Tomorrow is a very important day for the state of Mississippi. We vote on an amendment......Amendment 26, which states:

Amendment 26: What it says?
Amendment 26 - The Mississippi Personhood Amendment-- is a citizens initiative to amend the Mississippi Constitution to define personhood as beginning at fertilization or "the functional equivalent thereof." Its purpose is to protect all life, regardless of age, health, function, physical or mental dependency, or method of reproduction. The entire proposed Amendment is as follows:
Be it Enacted by the People of the State of Mississippi: SECTION 1. Article III of the constitution of the state of Mississippi is hereby amended BY THE ADDITION OF A NEW SECTION TO READ: Section 33. Person defined. As used in this Article III of the state constitution, "The term 'person' or 'persons' shall include every human being from the moment of fertilization, cloning or the functional equivalent thereof." This initiative shall not require any additional revenue for implementation.
(NOTE: Please understand that the inclusion of the word cloning in the proposed Amendment does not in any way condone cloning. There will be an entire section on the web siteposted soon explaining why this wording is necessary and answering any questions.)
We the people of Mississippi were required to collect and certify 89,285 certified signatures from registered voters (equally divided throughout the state of Mississippi). We far exceeded this requirement - collecting well over 130,000 and having over 106,000 certified.
Now, in November of 2011, we have the opportunity to vote on the question. If the majortiy of the people voting in vote YES on Amendment 26, abortion will be outlawed in our state; cloning and other forms of medical cannibalism will be effectively stopped; and a challenge will be set up to Roe v Wade.

Now, I have talked with people on facebook, through email, and face to face who have argued that this will end up making miscarriages a crime, birth control pills illegal, and invitro fertilization illegal.

Here are my thoughts.....

No one has ever been arrested because they had a miscarriage....unless there was other criminal activity involved.

No, birth control pills will not be affected.

And, more and more medical experts and government officials have emphasized that invitro will not be affected.

Even if the later two were affected.....I still could not bring myself to vote no on this amendment.

I cannot vote against LIFE! And, yes, I don't know how it is not to be able to bear children. However, I have a heart for adoption.....there are too many children out there needing a family. I have seen friends of mine adopt...and it is hard, but a beautiful and rewarding thing.

So, do what you want...but my Father in heaven (and on earth) have had some long talks about it....and I know what He wants me to do.

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Making a difference....

Today, I hope I made a little bit of a difference. I taught the Sr High and Jr High Youth in Bible Fellowship (Sunday School). An area youth pastor/football team chaplain passed away last Monday. I did the lesson on struggling with the "why's".

I hope a helped a little. I shared interviews of Abby Rike for Biggest Loser who lost her husband and two children in a car accident. I also shared about Bobby Petrocelli....he lost his wife when a drunk driver drove through their bedroom.

So many "why's"! I have to remind myself daily that I may never understand.

God's plans are way higher than ours. His thoughts are so much more vast than mine.

But, what I am thinking about today is.....what difference can I make everyday in someone else's life?

I challenge you to do the same. It may be a text, phone call, a smile, a visit....just find a way to reach someone else every single day!

Now, you know....you all have to keep me accountable! :)

Just like the men in the movie "Courageous", all of us can stand up, be courageous, and fight the fight daily. We can make a difference!!!!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Questions and Frustations....

One year ago, October 3rd, we lost our worship pastor at church. He was only 46....married with two precious teenagers.

Monday, a friend of mine from college lost her brother, age 42. He was married with three precious teenagers. He was a youth pastor and chaplain of the local high school football team.

These are times that I ask "why" a lot. Some people may think that is weak spiritually. But, I think God would rather us be honest and real, than a fake. I don't understand while mean, hateful people go on to live...and these two guys are gone.

My brain, however, is very small (no comments, please..haha!). It is so small compared to the mind of God. He knows a whole lot more than I do. And, even though it breaks my heart and brings me to tears in situations like these....I will trust He knows what He is doing.

Praying for the families, friends and students all affected by this death. May God be glorified even in tragedy!

Trick or Treat!

This was a special day for our boys...especially Micah. He did say "Trick or Treat" and even sang "Happy Birthday" to his dear old mom.

Here are a few pics from the night.


Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Fall Fest!

We had a great time at Fall Fest tonight at Willow Pointe Church (our wonderful church family!!!)!

Here are the boys in their football outfits. Z is going to be a Saints Cheerleader....so of course, JC had to be a Saints Football Player. And, in honor of our Johnny Salami, Micah will be a Dallas Cowboy player! :)




I want to be like my big brother!

I have seen Micah doing a lot of things with JC lately. He is really acting like he wants to do things just like him. (This may be scary!) haha!

Here are some precious moments I caught......

And, yes, JC does have shorts on....even though it does not look like it in this picture! Haha!

Trip to the Zoo

Well, we had a great trip to the zoo. Here are some pictures! :)












Thursday, October 20, 2011

The Ugly Virus!

I haven't blogged in a week! Yikes!

I got sick with a virus this weekend. Then, JC got sick in the early morning hours this morning. He just got back up and playing. He seems to be better. Seems kids get over these things a lot quicker than grown ups!

My family wants to take the boys to New Orleans for the weekend (Zoo and Aquaruim). It will be a good time for all of us.....and great weather!

The Ugly Virus!

I haven't blogged in a week! Yikes!

I got sick with a virus this weekend. Then, JC got sick in the early morning hours this morning. He just got back up and playing. He seems to be better. Seems kids get over these things a lot quicker than grown ups!

My family wants to take the boys to New Orleans for the weekend (Zoo and Aquaruim). It will be a good time for all of us.....and great weather!

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Spark?

Well, I haven't been successful with losing weight. I found a website a few years ago called "SparkPeople". I did not stick with it. It is a free site that can track your nutrition and fitness.

It was actually started by a guy who started an auction site years ago....and eBay bought him out. He is a multi-millionaire. He decided to put 5 million dollars into this site to help people get their lives back....without breaking their bank. Now talk about sacrificial giving!!!!!

I love it! Hopefully I can stick with it. I know I have to lose some weight before we move. The preparation, packing, and flight will go so much better if I am lighter and more in shape. JC said he would be my trainer. We did some jogging around the house last night and cleaned some today.

So, here we go on yet another journey! We'll just have to be positive and pray this works. I can make this lifestyle change with only one method.....God's help!

Sunday, October 9, 2011

The "Drag-on" Week

I haven't posted in almost a week. After watching "Courageous", I had so many "good" intentions. They were just that.

I let "life" take over. It was as if the week just dragged on......

The boys had colds, I felt icky, and I didn't get much of anything done.

I am realizing that life can get the best of us....but we have to choice to let it get us. I did that this week instead of asking God for the extra energy and pump I needed. I sinned against God, my husband, and my children. The sin of stress, laziness and apathy took over.

Praying this week can be different! Stay tuned!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

The Resolution for Women: Priscilla Shirer Author Interview


Here is a way that we, women of God, can take part in the Resolution from the movie "Courageous".

Courageous!

Last night, my second choice for a date night (first choice would be my husband!) went with me to see the movie "Courageous". I was sort of nervous about JC going to see this with me. I am not sure what he was expecting. He did get a little antsy about 20 minutes in...but I talked him into staying. He really enjoyed it.

I had to explain a lot on the way home.....things like drunk drivers, gangs, drugs. I feel blessed that my six year old did not know much about it. However, I know that the earlier we teach him how God wants us to handle things like that, the better. It is too late if I wait until he is encountered with it.

The movie went beyond my expectations. It seem Sherwood Pictures just comes up with better and better movies. I loved "Fireproof"! I am praying that I will carry through what I have learned from all the movies this church and group have made.

I will be posting some information about the Resolution. Praying you all will join me in changing our families.

The church that took us in while we were in Texas during my father-in-law's illness and death was called the Revolution Church. Their mission is really simple.....yet so profound.

LOVE GOD, LOVE OTHERS, START A REVOLUTION!

I'm making this part of my life mission............will you make it part of yours??

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Kindergarten and Elementary years

I remember going to Karen's Kindergarten. I remember feeling really special because I had the same name as my teacher. Mrs. Shirley Barrett also taught there. She was one of my mom's close friends. Her son, Steven and I went to swimming lessons with "Miss Lee" in Poplarville.

My memories are mostly of that first room with the "Alphabet People". Also, I remember having snacks like those butter cookies which were great as pretend rings! And, there was many a stain made on our shirts in that back play area! The biggest memories of kindergarten were of the trip on the Amtrak train in Hattiesburg and trips to the park. We always had those Mickey Mouse ice cream treats at the end to cool off. And those slides! Have you ever felt heat like the heat off the big metal slides at the city park? haha!

I remember being in Mrs. Taylor's class in first grade. We were in the trailers at that time. I was so excited to start school. Thanks to my teachers in kindergarten, I had a head start with letters, numbers, shapes, etc. I wasn't exactly the athlete, but poor Coach Fairley had a lot of patience with me during PE. The big tranisition was moving up the hill to 4th grade! Man, we were going big time when we got to be in the "basement" of that building up the hill! There was a lot of "buzz" that year also. I remember that the new elementary school was built that year. We moved into that building after Christmas. As a former teacher, I cannot imagine what those teachers went through during that Christmas vacation!

Another memory I have is music! I remember when Michael Marks hit our town. He began the group "Company". I loved watching them as a child. I, also, loved the musicals that the school put on during that time. I had dreams of being in those musicals when I "grew up" and went to high school. (I never was in a musical, sadly, until I went to PRCC. I suprisingly got the lead role in my first musical! I guess the drama/music teachers felt bad for me and knew my time was running out...hahah!)

I remember the musicals like:
Annie Get Your Gun
The Music Man
The Wizard of Oz
Cinderella
Mame
The Phantom of the Opera
and many more!

Share some of your memories! Maybe some will be motivated to begin more of these same things for the kids in Lumberton now.

One big "brag up", though. I am so impressed with the Lumberton Strings! Mrs. Ellis has done such a wonderful job. Here is an article about them:
http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20110905/NEWS01/109050316/Teacher-inspires-pupils

Monday, September 26, 2011

First Memories


Today I have been trying to think of what I remember first about growing up in Lumberton.

Some things came to mind....

- Staying with Aunt Ruby (Ruby Justice.....we were not "blood kin", but that is what we all called her.) I watched Family Affair with her everyday! :)

- The days we called "Syrup Days" at Uncle Grady's and Aunt Ruth's (not blood kin....but same as "Aunt Ruby", they were our family!) Grady Brown would invite what seemed like a slew of folks out to his house when he made syrup. Everyone got to bring home one of those bronze tin cans with the best syrup! I remember visiting them all the time......the things that stick out in my mind are: fishing in the ponds back behind their house, her "red" china, and that she had this pretty bench at the foot of her bed. :)

- Grocery shopping at Carr's grocery. You always felt special when you went in there. Mrs. Carr's smile shined so bright, and Mr. Carr always had to joke with us about something. And, no one's bologna tasted like the bologna cut fresh there!

- Learning all those songs at Olive Baptist Church from Mr. Dionne and Mrs. Elaine. :) Just the other night, I was singing with the boys...."And if the devil doesn't like it, he can sit on a tack"!

- Christmas time at Western Auto! I could not wait for Mr. C.H.  to get in the Christmas stock next door to his main store. Mrs. Sunshine Bishop sure lived up to her name.....she could light up a room!

- The Lumberton Library and Mrs. Martha Namie.....I try to take the boys every once and awhile to the library. Every time I mention to JC about the "Martha Namie" Children's Room. She was some kind of special! She truly gave me my love of reading!

- Bogle's Store - Loved, loved this store. I think every kid in town liked it. :)

Feel free to share your memories. May they draw us to pray more for our hometown, its citizens and leaders. It may even fuel a fire that is worth burning called "Enthusiam" which might lead to growth in Lumberton!
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Sunday, September 25, 2011



I know this is for Hattiesburg (FBC Hattiesburg made this video), but it can remind us of the main answer for my hometown.....or wherever you live. :)

Filling up with the good things!

I am not sure if this is God's leading....but I'm pretty sure it has to be.

I was praying about all the negative that has been going on in my hometown of Lumberton, MS. Maybe we need to be filling the internet with some "good" about the town.

I will begin a series of posts (hopefully one each day) about the memories I have....and about what good is still there. I have almost 20 years of memories of living there....and 20 years of "coming home" memories.

Join me in prayer, Lumberton natives, and pray that God is exalted in this little town again! :)


Hurting for Hometown.....

My hometown is going through a crisis. There is a division so wide. There is conflict with city leaders, frustration among citizens about a dying economy in town, and an overall disparity among everyone.
I grew up in “small town America”. Everyone knew everyone. My mom and dad both worked in Lumberton in the “service” industry for years and years….and still work there. My father was born and raised in Lumberton. He chose to continue to raise his family there.
We had a good school with strong Christian teachers and leadership. But there has been a turning point over the past 20 years since I left. There is a lot of hatred, racism, envy, and anger in my hometown. There is no work for most who live there. Most have to drive at least 30 miles to go to work in another town.
The only time my hometown is in the news seems to be when there is trouble. The town is literally dying.
This has been tugging at my heart for some time. See, I don’t live in my hometown anymore. Life took me in many different directions....and God planted us here where we are now. We attend a wonderful church near us. Even some from my hometown travel to and from there each week to worship.  I also homeschool my children by choice. I want my children to have a very strong background in the Word which is incorporated in their education.
I watched the movie “The Grace Card” last night. I could not sleep for thinking of how my hometown ought to watch this film! I wish all the pastors and spiritual leaders would let go of the past grudges, divisions, and hatred. I am praying now that God would soften their hearts to unite and help take this town back for God.
I wish I could take this on….but we are moving after Christmas to South Korea. However, maybe I can plant a seed, telling everyone I know to watch this movie and pray for the same things I am.
My hometown needs to be united in one purpose…..their love and devotion for God. There needs to be a lot of forgiveness, grace and mending of relationships.
Lord, have mercy on us! Hear our prayer! Amen

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

What ever happened to the 24 hour virus??

Didn't we used to get something that was called the "24 hour virus"? Micah got sick Monday afternoon, gave it to his cousin, and relapsed today. We have been dealing with sickness for 48 hours now. Finally, I think he is getting better.

I also have been feeling sick. I think I just got a touch of it....and coupled with no sleep....I felt icky! I am finally feeling human again, also.

Now to make that plan of attack on getting ready for our move. I also need to try to lose some more weight before we go. I need more energy for this task ahead. I also have to remind myself that my body is a temple of God. The Holy Spirit resides in me. What kind of temple am I keeping for Him?

I have also made a page on facebook for "Courageous Moms and Sons". JC wants me to take him to see the movie "Courageous". Since his daddy is gone, he wants me to take him. So, we are making it a date night. I feel this is an opportunity for parents to make a new commitment to God, our spouses, and our children!

Join me in being "courageous"!

Monday, September 19, 2011

Shallow Ditches

Well, to be honest, my ditch digging is not going well. I got caught in hosting family from out of town, speech therapy, laziness, and now.....a sick child.

Now I am thinking about how I need to make a "game plan" for getting this house cleaned out! Part of me just wants to dig in and get it down....another part wants to space it out. However, the sooner the better for me...and some friends of ours who are graciously going to move in while we are gone to South Korea to take care of the house! (Yes, God is good....and He always provides!)

Pray for us during this crazy transition! I will post more later.

That sick child of mine fell asleep this afternoon.....and did not wake up until an hour ago. Looks like we are looking at a long, long night!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Diggin' Ditches....

I just listened to a sermon from a few weeks ago from the Revolution Church in Schertz, Texas near San Antonio. This was the church family that wrapped their arms around us when we were in Texas during last winter and spring.

This sermon was centered around digging ditches. No one likes to dig ditches. I can assure you that digging ditches is not on my "Bucket List". I hate to sweat. However, there has to be a lot of sweat and tears in life.

The scripture was from II Kings 3. Three kings were joining to battle the Moabites. They had come to a point where there was no water anywhere. They asked Elisha, a strong man of God, to come and bring them a Word from the Lord.

He stopped and asked for a harpist. What? Give me a break! You want some music?? He was digging some ditches....spending time with God to hear His Word for the people.

Then God told them to dig some ditches! In this heat? It is so dry, God! That is too hard........He sometimes calls us to do the hard work before we receive what He has planned for us!

So they started to dig ditches. And, after much toil, sweat, and probably tears, God brought the water!

I am so glad God gave us Revolution Church for times just like this. I can be a part of them even two states away. I can be a part of them from across the world in 2012! I needed to hear this today.

I am starting a new line of ditches. I am having to dig some ditches that are going to be hard and stressful. This house is about to go through a purging it has never seen before. I truly think part of God's plan in this move is to help us get down to the basics and begin to spend more time with Him....and each other!

Next time you say that you feel life is empty.....that you feel your family is growing apart....start giving away some stuff. Turn off the TV, internet, cell phones, video games, etc.....

Spend some time with God and each other! Dig some ditches for the hard times in life. They can come in an instant!

Thank you, Bro. Zak, for your words today that you shared....straight from God Himself!

http://www.revyourlife.com/

- Karen....head ditch digger for now :)

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Long time, no post

Sorry we haven't posted in awhile. Mike came home a week and a half ago, and we have been enjoying some family time. He is now at a meeting in Houston. We will get him home this weekend for a few more days before he heads back to Singapore.

We are trying to prepare for moving the end of the year. There is so much to do. Sometimes it is overwhelming to even think about. However, I know that God will help me get everything done! :)

God has truly been working in JC's heart. He has asked lots of questions lately. He is wanting to live everyday for Christ, as much as a six year old can.

I pray I can be the mother I need to be for him and Micah!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Six years since Hurricane Katrina

Yesterday marked six years since Hurricane Katrina devastated the Gulf Coast and the South. I am going to account some of our experience....

My husband was offshore in the gulf at the time and had been evacuated to Lafayette, LA. JC was only about 4 1/2 months old. Mike asked me to go stay with my parents. They were taking shelter at their church's educational building, which had cement blocks as walls.

We went over there on August 28th. Our family was given the privilege of "bunking" in the nursery, since we were the only ones with a baby. The first night went okay. Then, Katrina hit. I can remember my father had a battery powered TV. We were able to watch the ABC affliate in Gulfport/Biloxi. They were getting calls in from people stranded on the coast.....in homes, on roofs, anywhere imaginable. There was also a moment when we watch the roof blow off of the news room.

We also had a family who lived right across from the church. They watched as a tree fell on their home. One of my dad's dear friends was there...he was watching to see if anything happened to his home, which was also across the street. However, he was also battling something much bigger....cancer.

That day is when the power went out. It was so hot and humid. I remember having to take JC out to the car and putting on the air conditioner to get him calmed down to go to sleep.

The next day was another tough day. Finally, the youth director of the church ventured out into town. He found much devastation. One of them was my little sister's house. A huge tree had fallen right into the middle of it. Thank goodness she had gone to North LA to take refuge with a friend's family.

That second day brought no water, no electricity, and much uncertainty. We found out that no one was able to travel out of town because of fallen trees. There was no way on earth I would make it back to our home 40 miles away. On top of that uncertainty, the cellular service had fallen. I had no way of reaching my husband, sister or inlaws. They had last spoken to us before the storm. They had no idea if we were okay, if our homes were okay, or what the situation was. All they knew was what the news was portraying to them.

God would provide....but we had no idea how He would that day. August 30th was the beginning of a hard journey for many..

To Be Continued..................

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Mike - Four Winds Trading Company

The Four Winds Trading Company


I went to a Wax Museum which gave me a crash course in understanding the history of Singapore, as well as the 4 dominant cultures, which have come together to give Singapore it’s uniqueness.

The first room we go into is a mock up of a Trading Company from the 19th century.

I’m not sure how true the story is from the museum, but we watched a most interesting video in the whare house of the Trading Company.  I say interesting, because most of it was holograms which played on smoke rising out of different crates.  The owners of the Four Winds Trading Company say they came from the four corners (India, Malaysia, China, Britain), and wanted to work together to make life better for all.

Afterwards, we were able to walk through a guided path, which walked us through the history of Singapore.  And there was more than enough to learn… more than I would be able to write in just a few minutes.

But I learned a bit more about the “Coolie” – the same labor force who came over and built the Trans-American train line.
Imagine this little room being your “everything”.  I would say life here was no easier than it was when they were building the train line in California.

One thing is for sure – two hundred years ago, the “machine” of choice was ‘Man’.  Three men using their body weight as the engine for an improvised crane.  Now, naturally as a Safety Engineer – I’m wondering … “why are you standing under the load?  Where’s everyone’s work gloves and hard hats?  Did you fill out the Critical Lift Permit?”

No wonder everyone looks at the next generation and says “The youth just don’t know the meaning of hard work”.  No kidding.  After trying to imagine doing this all day, every day… I wonder if any of us know what “hard” work is.

The museum also shows many different aspects of the four major cultures – ranging from marriage, to major religious ceremonies.  One thing is for sure, there is plenty to learn here.


The above is one of my favourite finds – sort of looks like a cross between a doll house and a wheelbarrow.  The display says these were very popular at the beginning of the 20th century.  The proprietor would roll his wagon to the market, and then charge a few pennies for the people to look through the windows, and together everyone would watch a short movie projector playing on the inside.

In case anyone wonders – the Mandarin on the side.. it translates as “Block Box Buster – Saturday Matinees, please turn off pocket phone.”




Monday, August 22, 2011

Poor Baby and Minor Dental "Surgery"

The thing about our pediatric dentist is that they know....and I mean, Know...my child. Micah is two years old and rarely stays still for anything. He has weak enamel and a bad "sippy cup" habit. Now it caused two cavities on the top teeth. Caps were the only answer for those. And, at his age, he had to be put to sleep to have it done.

This meant an IV, gas mask and a breathing tube. Who knew that caps could get so complicated? I guess with my little man, everything can get complicated. haha!

And, wouldn't you know it? It all happens when Daddy is in Singapore. He misses all the good stuff.

After a bad night's sleep (he could not have anything to eat or drink after midnight), yucky "happy juice", and a very groggy, icky afternoon recovering, little Micah is in dreamland. I pray he sleeps all night! The nurse said the sedation could linger on for the next day or so. Poor thing can't get any energy....and that is very rare for him!

Here are a few precious pics from the "pre-surgery" room....right after they gave him his dose of happy juice! :)



Mike - Post 13

Mermaids, Mermen and now… Merlions
(or)
(Hey Mississippi!! – Two More Lessons)

Some countries have a particular symbol which represents their citizens.  In the U.S, we have the Bald Eagle. Spend any amount of time in Singapore and you quickly learn the “Merlion” is their symbol.  (Singa is Indian and Malay for Lion, and Pura means City).

Because Singapore is at it’s heart a sea-port, the Lion is a natural shoo-in.  Of course, with tourism being a very big part of Singapore, it probably didn’t take long for the Merlion itself to become a tourist attraction.


After paying 12 dollars, I went inside – wondering what I was going to see, and also hoping that there was an elevator (this place has to be at least 8 stories tall!).  Once in, we watched a short 5 minute video, and were told we could take our Merlion coin to the next room, where a statue would grant us a prize.  Ok… the way everyone was excited, I figure we must be getting something pretty… and as hot as it is outside, if my “prize” is a bottle of soda, I’ll be happy as well.

Once I had the token, there really wasn’t much more to do.  I could ride the elevator to the top – get out and look at the world through the mouth of the lion.
Hhhmm.... yes, that rates way up there on the excitement scale.  Since I saw this the other night, and the mouth was lit up, I guess this is more for night time pictures.  I’ll have to remember that for when Karen and the boys come over.  Wouldn’t mind having a picture of them in the mouth of a lion.  (But something tells me Micah would climb over the lion’s lip, and start working his way up to the ear!)

It was at the top of the lion’s head that I was able to see more of Singapore.  And I did see something interesting – it’s not uncommon to see rooftops with full beds of grass and bush.  One of the nationals I work with says it is what they do to combat greenhouse gases.  Maybe that’s something we should think about – I bet covering every walmart in the US with grass would do a lot more to reduce greenhouse gas than trying to build a bunch of windmills.  (Hey Mississippi!!– might want to think about this one)
It was at the back of the lion’s head where something interesting caught my eye.  There was a long strip of multi-colors down below.  And from the looks of it, I thought it might be one long continuous slide.
When I finally made it down to the bottom, I found that this is where the runoff from the waterfall goes.  While it is not a “slide”, it is a man-made creek.  And everyone comes here to cool of their feet.  (Another interesting idea we should have more of back in the states – Hey Mississippi!!-another free lesson from the good folks of Singapore)
And let me tell you – at the end of the day, I was glad to be able to put my feet in something cool!

As for my lucky prize? A small plastic hand-held oriental fan.  Ooohhhh!!!